Why it pays to look backwards

Why it pays to look backwardsGenerally in life we’re encouraged to look forwards.

Plan for the future.

Set goals.

Visualise how you want to be.

All of this helps to give us direction and stay focused (and I’m all for that).

BUT when we’re constantly looking to the future, we can lose sight of everything we’ve achieved so far.

Our eyes are always on the road ahead, thinking about the next goal, and we forget to appreciate what we have already created around us.

I’m holding my hands up here as a recovering eyes-forward, goal-setting junkie!

Since childhood, I’ve always been striving to achieve, constantly thinking about the next qualification, the next job, the next personal goal to work towards.

Whenever I achieved something, I didn’t give myself any time to acknowledge and appreciate it.  I immediately started to think about what was next.

When I worked in finance, I was the first person in my company to pass a high-level investment exam.  It was blooming hard work and took months of study.  But as soon as I found out I had passed, I started to plan what qualification to work towards next.  Crazy!

And do you know what?  It’s exhausting when your eyes are constantly fixed on the road ahead.

You never feel satisfied with where you are.

It always feels like there is something missing.

This comes up time and time again with my clients.  Very often, unless I specifically ask them to acknowledge (and celebrate) what they’ve achieved so far, they’ll instead focus on what’s still to do, beating themselves up about not being ‘there’ yet.

Why is this important?

Well, when you feel exhausted, dissatisfied and under pressure to keep moving, it’s not a great place to create wealth (of any kind) from.

Also, when we’re not appreciating all of the glorious-ness that we’ve achieved so far, we’re sending a pretty ungrateful message to the Universe.  ‘Sorry, but that’s quite enough.  I need more!’

So, as we move towards the end of the year, I want to encourage you to move into a place of appreciation.

Give yourself some time to write down everything you have achieved this year so far.

Really go to town and include business and personal achievements, big and small.

Allow yourself to feel good about everything you have created this year.

And celebrate it!

Take a breath, look back and make some space for appreciation.

I promise this will lift you up.

Nicola x


Relax! You don’t have to panic (it’s only the end of the year)

Girl jumps to the New Year 2015Is it just me, or are you feeling just a little irked with all of those, ‘It’s nearly the end of the year!’, blogs and social media posts that are appearing right now?

It seems like every time I go online, I am either receiving an email or someone on Facebook is letting me know how many weeks there are until the end of 2014 and advising me that ‘there’s still time to make it happen and reach my goals’.

I completely get the idea behind all of this.   Most of us set some kind of goals at the beginning of each year and as we approach December,  it’s natural to look back and review how we’ve done.

It’s just that the underlying tone of some of these blogs, articles and posts, seems to be, ‘Come on, you need to push, hustle, strive your way to the end of the year!’

And do you know what?  I hold my hands up here, because I have written this kind of content before too. 

But it’s not sitting comfortably with me right now.

Because I am perfectly aware of how many weeks there are left in the year.

I am also perfectly aware that there is ‘still time’ to reach my goals.

I am aware of this because there is ALWAYS enough time.

Newsflash: The world is not going to end on 31st December 2014.

You don’t have to panic.  You don’t have to start a mad dash to get it all done.  You don’t have to feel under pressure to ‘reach your goals’ by new year’s eve.

You can choose to work in a way that feels kind to you.

You can choose to take it easy.

You can choose to create new goals.

You can choose to have no goals.

You can choose to have your business year end in March, July or freaking October if you like.

I am not criticising anyone here.  I accept that it can be motivational to feel that you have a specific deadline to reach your goals.

If it feels expansive and exciting for you to have a big push to the end of 2014, go for it (I am SO cheering you on!)

But if you’re beginning to feel pressurised and panicky, like you ‘should’ be working your butt off, or beating yourself up that you haven’t done everything you wanted to this year, give yourself a break.

Give yourself permission to slow down.

Give yourself permission to have fun (it is the time of year for it, after all!)

Give yourself permission to change direction.

Give yourself permission to reflect.

You create your own deadlines (and you can totally disregard them, if you like.)

You make your own rules.

And your business, your goals, your clients, social media, the whole shebang will still be here on 1st January 2015.

So, just do what feels good for you right now, okay?

Nicola x






A Full Moon Ceremony for Releasing Old Money Beliefs

A full moon ceremony for releasing old moneyWhat are your beliefs around money and wealth?
Are they positive and supporting, or are they negative and limiting?

Often these beliefs are set-up in childhood and come from things our parents, teachers or society in general have told us.

Maybe you heard statements like this when you were growing up and you have taken them on as your own beliefs?

‘Money isn’t for people like us’.

‘It’s greedy to want more.’

‘You have to work really hard to earn money.’

‘It’s rude to talk about money.’

‘Rich people are arrogant.’

Any of the above ringing any bells?  I know they did for me when I first started doing my money belief work.

It may be that you’re going about your life with these kind of limiting beliefs, these old, unhelpful money stories, running unconsciously in your mind.  (Or you could be running these kind of beliefs quite consciously and openly).

Whichever applies to you, if you believe that money is ‘bad’ or ‘wrong’ in some way, or to want more is ‘greedy’, then you’ll either consciously or subconsciously sabotage yourself when it comes to increasing your bank balance.

The good news is that you can shift any unhelpful money beliefs and create some supportive new ones.

There are different ways to do this, but today I’m going to share a releasing ceremony that works particularly well at full moon (I’m always up for a bit of woo woo and witchiness!)

The full moon is a great time for releasing old beliefs or unhelpful patterns.  You can see it as an opportunity to clear some space for you to move forwards in the way you want to.  Gorgeous!

Heads up: You can do this releasing ceremony at any time, but it’s particularly powerful at full moon.  Click here to find out when the next full moon is.

Here are the simple steps you need to follow:

1) Give yourself some time to uncover any limiting money beliefs you currently have.

I recommend that you take a piece of paper and start writing them down.

You may already be aware of some of them, so get those down first.  But don’t stop with the obvious ones!  Write down as many as you can.

It can be helpful to complete the following statements in order to bring your beliefs to the surface:

Money is ……..

Rich people are …….

To make more money I’d have to ……….

If I was wealthy ………

My parents always used to say money was ……..

Get them all down on paper.  This can be a great release in itself and bringing these beliefs into your awareness is the first step to changing them.  Go you!

2) Burn, baby, burn!

This is the exciting bit.  You get to burn your old money beliefs.

On the evening of the next full moon, take your piece of paper with all the unhelpful money beliefs on and burn it.

You can have a fire in the garden under the light of the moon, or if that’s not possible, feel free to do it inside (obligatory health and safety notice – be careful with this, eh?)

As you burn your old beliefs, say the following out loud:

‘I release my limiting beliefs under the light of this beautiful full moon.  I am ready to let go of all that no longer serves me.  I choose to create new beliefs and receive abundance into my life.’

Heads up – you might feel some resistance to doing this.  Maybe you’ll want to skip this step altogether?  I know it might seem a bit ‘out there’, but it works!  Go on, have some fun and give it a go.

Notice how you feel after you have done this.  Show yourself some love – have a candle-lit bath, eat some yummy food, dance.  Celebrate the clearing away of old ‘stuff’!

3) Choose your new beliefs.

You might think that you don’t get to choose your beliefs, but I’m here to tell you that you absolutely do (and how empowering is that?)

It’s time for you to choose and install some supportive, expansive new money beliefs.

Again, give yourself some time to do this.  Light a candle and take out your journal or a piece of blank paper.

Think about what beliefs are going to serve you?

What do you need to believe in order to receive more?

Write down your new, positive beliefs about money and wealth.  Make them exciting and compelling.

A couple that I use are:

‘Money flows to me effortlessly and in abundance.’

‘Money is a beautiful tool for me to do good in the world.’

Choose words that resonate with you and make you feel good when you say them.

Don’t go crazy and write down hundreds of new beliefs – you’ll just feel overwhelmed.

To start with, choose two or three to focus on.  Keep it simple.

When you have decided on your new beliefs, it’s time to embed them in your powerful subconscious mind.  To help with this, you can:
  • Say them out loud when you wake up and before you go to sleep.
  • Write them out daily.
  • Run your new beliefs through your head as often possible (in the shower, in the car, waiting in a queue).
  • Create a screen-saver with them on.
  • Put reminders on your phone that pop up with your new beliefs throughout the day.

Very soon, you’ll find that you’re thinking much more positively about money and wealth (which can only have a positive effect on your bank balance!)

There you have it, three simple (slightly witchy!) steps to let go and release any limiting beliefs around money.

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The three clear signs you’re blocking your flow of income – part three

The 3 clear signs you're blocking your flow-3In the third and final part of this series, I’m talking about the third super-clear sign that you’re limiting your flow of income right now.
Heads up: This is probably the most important sign of all and you’ll know right away if it applies to you.

Watch the video below to find out what it is and how to overcome it, allowing more money to flow to you.

As I said in the video, I have experienced this sign very clearly in the past and it was a wake-up call for me to do things differently.

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The three clear signs you are blocking your flow of income – part two

The 3 clear signs you're blocking your flow-2In part two of this series, I’m talking about the second sign that you could be limiting your income right now – a reluctance to set financial goals.

Do you experience resistance when it comes to putting a figure on your money goals?

If the answer is, ‘Yes’, you are certainly not alone.

Watch the video below to discover:

  • why you might be experiencing this reluctance,
  • how this could be restricting your income, and
  • how to move on through any resistance and have fun with your financial goals.

(Heads up: make sure you watch to the end of the video, as I am setting you a juicy challenge for this month.)

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The three clear signs you’re blocking your flow of income – part one

The 3 clear signs you're blocking your flowIn my work as a Money Mindset Mentor, I work with clients who are blocking their flow of income in some way (and I’ve totally done this myself in the past!)

This is rarely happening consciously – very few people would make a conscious decision to prevent income from flowing to them.

However, there are subtle, subconscious ways that you could be sabotaging yourself right now which are stopping you from receiving the income you desire.

I would LOVE to help you bring these blocks into your awareness, so you can move through them (I’m all about helping women to bust their blocks – kapow!)

There are three clear signs that you’re preventing money from flowing to you freely and I’m sharing the first one with you here today.

Money Block No. 1 – Not valuing yourself

This block can apply whether you have your own business or work for someone else.  Let me ask you if you currently do any of the following:


Do you know deep down that you’re not charging enough for your services or products?

Do you feel an underlying resentment that you’re not being paid enough for your time?

Are you scared of charging more for fear of being ‘priced out of the market’?

Discounting your prices

Do you offer a discount to potential clients before they even ask for it?

Maybe you find yourself stating the price of your service or product, then immediately jump in with a discounted price before the client even has a chance to say, ‘Yay’ or ‘Nay’?

Focusing your energy on non income-generating activities

We women can all do a pretty good job of keeping ourselves busy, but are the tasks you’re focusing on actually bringing in the moolah?

If you find yourself spending hours on social media or tweaking your website with no clear purpose, then you are deflecting from the real work.


Do you play hide-and-seek in your business?  Maybe you pop your head out and make a video, write a blog or do some speaking and then retreat back into hiding?

Are you fearful of putting yourself ‘out there’ because deep down you just don’t feel good enough?

If you’re doing any (or all!) of the above right now, then you are actively preventing yourself from receiving more money.

I repeat, if you don’t value yourself, you are actively preventing yourself from receiving more!

You’re staying very safe and comfortable, but the chances are you’re feeling pretty darn frustrated and burned-out too.

So, what can you do to bust through this block?

The first step is always awareness.  So, if you’re thinking, ‘Yes, that’s me’, then well done for noticing how you’re blocking yourself.

The second step is to make it a practice to value yourself (and it is a regular practice – not a one-off activity).

How do you do this?  Well, there are a couple of ways in particular that I recommend.

1) Write a list of every way someone benefits from working with you or purchasing your services.

This was recommended to me by coaches and mentors many few times before I actually did it and I can tell you it really makes a difference.

Go to town and write down every single benefit and transformation that you provide to someone.

This is something I recommend you do regularly (particularly when you are offering a new service or product) to build your sense of value and self-belief.

2) Keep a positivity file

I want you to keep a record of each and every piece of positive feedback you receive.

Every time someone says, ‘Oh, thanks for that.  You did a great job!’ or you receive an email from a client saying how much you’ve helped them, record it.  Write it down, print it off or keep it in a swipe file on your laptop.

Why?  Well, we tend to do a pretty good job of remembering any negative feedback or criticism we receive – it seems to stick like super-glue, eh?  But, when it comes to positive feedback, we can easily brush it off.  ‘Oh that, it was nothing.’

It’s time to change my lovely!

Start building your positivity file.  Look at it regularly.  See how much value you offer to the world and how much you are loved.

It’s all about building your receiving muscle!

So, there are you, money block number one and how to move through it.  Click here to discover block number two.

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Ready to make a leap?

Ready to make a leap_(Is it time for a differentI was talking with some friends I used to work with recently and I realised that it is exactly six years since I left a job in finance that I hated.

At the time, I thought that I simply needed to move to another company to be happy – the same kind of role in a different organisation.  So I made a move and very soon realised that it wasn’t the company that was the problem, it was the actual work I was doing.

Arggh!  What was I to do?  I knew I wasn’t happy, but I had no idea what to do next.

My subconscious mind must have been on the look-out for the next step, because very soon I went to health-spa and saw a talk by a hypnotherapist.  Although she was pretty eccentric and I had never experienced hypnotherapy before, I was struck by what she had to say.

The idea that words can have such a potent effect (either positively or negatively) on our minds and the choices we make in life – this stuck with me.

I just knew that I had to retrain as a hypnotherapist and I was so unhappy in my job that I was willing to listen to my inner voice.

I made my decision and that was that.  I followed my instinct and left my job to start training as a hypnotherapist (my employers thought I was bonkers btw!)

I leapt.

Was it easy?  Well, the initial decision was fairly easy, but the process since certainly hasn’t been.

Do I regret making the leap?   Nope! That jump has taken me on a path that I could never have envisioned.

Along the way I met my husband, moved house, started my own business, have worked with many wonderful clients and met the most amazing, inspirational people.

If someone had told me where that initial step would lead, I wouldn’t have believed them.

But here I am and I keep taking steps along my path.

So, why am I sharing this with you?

Well, often I speak to friends or work with clients and they tell me how unhappy they are in their current situation.  I wonder if it’s the same for you right now?

Maybe you detest your job and get that sinking Monday-morning feeling at the beginning of each week?

Perhaps you feel lost or stuck in your relationship?

Maybe you lie awake at night thinking there must be more to life and wondering how you ended up where you are right now?

I wonder if you find yourself reasoning that you will just, ‘See how it goes’, ‘Give it some time’ and ‘Wait and see if it gets better’.

Now I’m all for taking personal responsibility and not blaming your unhappiness on anyone else.  But that doesn’t mean you have to stay in a situation where you’re not happy.

If you’re feeling dissatisifed, discontented, stuck or downright pissed-off at the moment, there is a reason.

Maybe your soul is calling out to you, ‘Hey, you could do something different you know?  There is SO much more for you –  there’s so much more you could have, do and be.’

Listen, can you hear it?

Your inner voice.  Your inner wisdom.  Your higher self.

What is she saying to you?

What is she calling you to do?

What would happen if you listened and took action?

Yes, it might be scary.  Yes, it might not lead where you expect.   But what are the implications if you stay where you are right now?

Weeks, months, even years of being unhappy.

Seriously?  Are you prepared to put up with that?

Listen to your inner knowing.

Maybe you know what the next step is?  And if you don’t right now, set your intention to look out for it.

Very soon, you will receive a sign, your next step will become clear.  I promise.

I’m not especially brave or entrepreneurial.  I just took that initial jump and followed on from there.

If you feel deep-down that you want to make a change, you can do it!

And if you want some help to make that leap?  If this post has resonated with you and you would like the chance to explore your next step, then I would LOVE to offer you a complimentary Clarity Call with me.

During this 30-minute call, we’ll explore what’s going on for you right now, anything that’s holding you back and how to move forward. Just click here to access my diary and book in for your Clarity Call.  Looking forward to speaking with you!

Nicola x

Head in the sand? Here are my top three Money Power Tips.

Have you got your money ‘stuff’ sorted?

By ‘stuff’, of course I mean your beliefs and thoughts about money (this is the focus of my work), BUT I also mean the more practical side of things.

  • Do you know what your current financial situation is? How much is in your current account? How much do you have in savings and investments (if any)? Do you have any debts and, if so, how much?
  • How do you manage your money? What happens to your income when you receive it?
  • How do you make your spending decisions?

If any of these questions are making you think:

‘Back off Nicola!’
‘I can’t think about that now, I don’t have time’
‘I’ll start worrying about managing my money when I’ve got more coming in’
‘Money is boring! I want to focus on other things’,

then I have a message for you (so please read on).

I completely get your resistance (even though I used to be a financial adviser in my previous corporate life, I used to very much feel this way myself), but the uncomfortable truth is that you’re very unlikely to receive more money (or hold onto it if you do) if you’re not willing and able to step up and take control of your finances NOW.

I often speak to women who say the kind of things I’ve mentioned above when I ask them about their finances or suggest a way of managing their money differently (well, they don’t normally tell me to ‘Back off’ but maybe they are thinking that deep down?)

Sometimes it feels easier to keep your head in the sand, or maybe you just don’t feel you have the time to sort out your finances? Perhaps you just don’t have a clue where to start?

The fact is that until you commit to truly being in your power around money, you’re sending a very clear message to yourself and the Universe, that you won’t be able to handle receiving more.

So, it’s no good waiting until you’re earning more or have more time, start taking control NOW.

And fortunately, I can help you with just that! Here are my top three ways to get your head out of the sand and start feeling powerful around money.

1) Get clear on where you are right now

The first step on your money mastery journey is to know where you’re starting from. Until you have clarity, it will feel like you are stumbling around in a fog.

Give yourself some time, get all of your financial paperwork out, log on to your online accounts and create a simple record of the following:

1) Your current income
2) The balance of your bank account(s)
3) The total of any savings or investments you have
4) Details of any monies owed to you (outstanding payments from clients, any refunds/rebates due, loans you have made to friends or family)
5) The total of any debts you have (credit cards, personal loans, overdrafts, mortgage, loans from friends or family)

Keep this record really simple to start off with. You can write it down or put the details in a spreadsheet (whatever floats your boat!)

Notice how you feel to have a clear statement of where you are financially right now.

You may very well feel some resistance to doing this (I know I did!), but recognise that this is your first step to taking the power back around money.

This is a process I take you through in my free 7-Day Money Mastery Kickstarter Challenge. Click here to join.

2) Become mindful of your money

Back in the days when  my hypnotherapy and coaching practice was focused on helping women with weight loss, when I first started working with clients I used to ask them to keep a food diary. This wasn’t about me being nosey and judging what they were eating. I wanted them to become more mindful of the food they were consuming and notice those times when they were eating and not physically hungry.

The very act of keeping the food diary often led to them eating less and making more conscious choices.

The same principle applies to money.

Have you ever had an experience where you’ve withdrawn some money from an ATR and it just seemed to disappear? Where the heck did that money go?

It’s time to become more mindful of your money – where it comes from and where it flows to.

For the next week, keep a record of all the money that comes to you. Note the amount and where it comes from, i.e. earnings, gifts, winnings, refunds, money you find.

At the same time, keep a record of each amount of money you spend and what you spend it on.

Again, you can do this very simply, either in a notebook or on your phone. Try to make the record as soon as you either receive or spend money, rather than at the end of the day when you might have forgotten.

At the end of the week you can review the information you have gathered and make any changes you want to make.

By doing this, you will have a clearer idea of the activities that bring you money and also where you are spending. You will begin to make more conscious, empowered choices and feel more in control.

3) Create your money pots

I heard this advice many times before I actually took it! It’s an idea I first read about in T Harv Eker’s book, ‘Secrets of the Millionaire Mind’ and then again in Ann Wilson’s awesome book, ‘The Wealth Chef‘, but like I said it took me a long time to implement!

The idea is that you allocate your income to different pots – one for savings, one for play, one for personal development, one for giving, etc.

You can decide which pots are important for you and the different proportions, but to give you an idea, this is how I currently split my income:

Short-term savings 10%
Long-term investments 10%
Play 10%
Personal Development 10%
Giving 5%
Other expenses 55%

For a long time, I resisted doing this and told myself I would start my pots when I was earning more.

Because I wasn’t stepping up and taking control of my cash, I never got to the point when I felt like I was earning enough, so I delayed creating my pots.

It’s only when I finally decided to just do it, that I found I could grow my different pots and somehow I had enough for all my other expenses. It was like magic!

I felt powerful and supported. I was finally taking control of my money and sending a clear message that I was ready for more.

So, how about you? Why not have a go and create your own money pots?

If you have online banking it’s usually very easy to set up some different accounts. If you don’t feel you can allocate the whole of your income in this way to start off with, just take a smaller amount initially and divide that amongst your pots, even if it’s £10.

I guarantee you will be amazed at how this transforms your feelings towards money and the financial results you see.

So, that’s my three money power tips.

Like I’ve said throughout, I completely get that you might be feeling some resistance towards implementing these money management techniques. It’s kinda part of the process, so simply notice that resistance and resolve to take action anyway.

Here’s to stepping into your power around money!

Your next step. Want to discover more ways you can create the income you desire (and deserve!)? Click here to join my free 7-Day Money Mastery Kickstarter Challenge and get started right away.

Is it my fault?

Is it my fault_Do you ever feel like you’re creating a whole load of s**t in your life?

Maybe you’ve watched ‘The Secret’, read about the Law of Attraction and realised that we are all powerful creators of our own realities.  Wonderful.

But, sometimes nagging doubts can pop up:

‘Hang on, what am I actually manifesting in my life?’

‘Maybe I’m totally limiting myself?’

‘How can I stop all of these pesky negative thoughts that keep creeping into my mind?’

I was speaking with a client the other day and she was worried about the impact some of her limiting beliefs might be having on her life and the results she was seeing in her business. 

Rather than focusing on how helpful it was that she had brought these unconscious beliefs into her awareness (so now she can start shifting them), she was panicking about what these thoughts would create.

I completely get this.  When I first started doing this kind of work and realising that my inner world (my thoughts, emotions and beliefs) could impact my outer world,  initially I felt a huge sense of excitement.

Then, very soon afterwards I thought:

‘But what about all of those negative thoughts that just seem to jump into my head?’

‘What about when I’m feeling like crap and don’t want to get out of bed?’

‘What about all of those deep limiting beliefs I’ve been working on?’

I became totally paralysed with fear, panic and self-doubt.

‘Arrghh, I can’t think!  Must keep the negativity out of my mind!’

The result?  I created the worst month in my business EVER.  I attracted no new clients, I made virtually no money and I felt like I would have to give it all up and go back to working a 9-5.

At the same time, I was beating myself up about how I had managed to manifest what felt like a huge disaster.  Not a good state of mind to be in.

What did I do to get out of the crap?

  • I talked about what was going on for me – with my coach, my mastermind group, my friends and Mr H.
  • I started to take action – small, simple steps that helped me to feel like I was back in control and moving forwards.
  • I continued doing the inner work – shifting limiting beliefs and reframing any negative thoughts.

By doing this, I managed to get myself back into a positive state of mind and start creating magic again.

But, there are still times when stuff happens in my life and I go into self-blame mode.  And I see this happen often, both with my clients and in my network.

My beautiful friend and mentor, Carly Hope, calls it ‘The curse of the conscious woman’.  We know we are powerful creators, so we beat ourselves up whenever anything happens in our lives that we don’t like.

So, if you are feeling like s**t is happening in your life right now and it’s all your fault, what can you do?

The first thing is to stop using your amazing awareness and insight as a stick to beat yourself with!

Each time you recognise a belief that could be limiting or a seemingly negative thought, see it as a gift.  Tell yourself, ‘This is an opportunity for me to let this go and write a new story for myself.’

Any new awareness is the first step to change.  Welcome any doubts, fears, anger and frustration as a sign that something is shifting for you.

By doing this, you are placing yourself in a position of power, rather than slipping into a downward spiral to blame-ville.

Secondly, appreciate all of the good that you have already created.

I can guarantee that you’ve manifested a whole load of beauty in your life.  Look around you now and focus on what you have in your life that you love – relationships, children, pets, home, work, surroundings.

Think about all of the amazing things you have done in your life, all the people you have met, how far you have come.

It can be easy to focus on the s**t rather than the good stuff, so switch that around.

When I started working on my wealth consciousness, at first I felt frustrated with my income.  I felt like I should be more successful.

Then I took stock and realised that over the past few years, I had manifested:

  • A total change of career
  • My own business
  • A husband
  • A gorgeous new home

Not bad, eh?  When I did this, I could see that I was totally rocking my power as a creator.  It just wasn’t in the ‘money in the bank’ way.

As soon as I acknowledged this, I actually started to see more financial results as I felt so much more powerful.

You might not always get what you desire in the exact way that you expect, but you are manifesting all of the time.  Choose to focus on the gorgeousness you’ve created in your life.

When you do that, you will feel lifted, your vibration will increase and more of the good stuff will flow your way.

So, instead of slipping into a place of self-blame and doubt, step into your power as a creator.

See any new awareness as an exciting opportunity to create a shift and acknowledge what you have manifested in your life so far.

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The Power of a Pow Wow

The power of a pow wowAs a Money Mindset Mentor, I get to speak to lots of different people about their financial situations, both individually and as groups.   Something I often hear is, ‘I don’t normally talk about this stuff!’

Many of us have been conditioned to keep quiet about money.  Our finances tend to be private and even within couples, there can be secrecy in this area.

When we don’t talk about a particular issue, it can lead to shame, confusion, fear and anxiety.  It’s no wonder money can be such a thorny subject when we spend most of the time keeping it all hidden away!

Over the past year I’ve learned to be much more open about money.

I make time to talk to my husband about our finances and take an active role in managing them and creating joint goals.

I’m more comfortable talking about money in the different groups I’m a member of, both online and offline.

I also meet with a friend once a fortnight to talk about all things money.  We call this our ‘Power Pow Wow!’  We set goals, discuss challenges and work on our wealth consciousness.

These Pow Wows are non-negotiable.  We meet every fortnight, regardless of what is going on for either of us.  This is sacred space for us to share support and create abundance.

If you do just one thing to improve the way you feel about money and boost your income, I recommend talking about your finances more.  Here are some different ways for you to do this:

  • If you have a partner, commit to being more open about your finances.  Make time to set joint money goals, review your savings and expenses, and take equal responsibility for your financial decisions.
  • Get together with a friend who can be your ‘money buddy’.  This will be someone you can share any challenges with, work towards financial goals and celebrate your successes.
  • Start a money book club.  There are so many books out there on money mindset, wealth consciousness and financial planning.   Get together with a group of friends and pick one book each month for you all to read.  You can then share your insights and any action you plan to take based on the book.
  • Create your own Power Pow Wow group.  Arrange to meet up regularly with a group of friends or acquaintances purely to focus on money.  This will be powerful space for you to give and receive support, share your feelings about money and plan how to move forward.
Take action now:  Which one of the above resonates with you most?  Commit to at least one way of being more open about money.  Start the conversation today!

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