Are you lacking in ‘receive-ability’?

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about receive-ability (i.e. being open to receive).

It’s one of the things that comes up time and time again with my clients.

When we’re open to receive, money and good stuff can flow to us easily and in abundance.  When we constrict and close ourselves off, the flow of cash (and good stuff) makes like a measly trickle.

So let me ask you this question, are you preventing yourself from receiving right now?

I’m sure you’re saying, ‘Hell, no!’, but I wonder if you recognise any of these examples of being closed off?

  • Deflecting compliments and positive feedback (‘What, this old thing?’)
  • Not being clear and open about what you have to offer to potential clients.
  • Procrastinating on your website, branding, logo (‘But surely I need all of that in place before taking on clients?’  Er, no.  Just do it!)
  • Knowing exactly where you want to go for dinner, but saying ‘I don’t mind’, when your partner/friend asks you for your preference.
  • Doing endless programmes, ecourses and training, rather than actually taking action in your business.
  • Hiding behind your laptop. (aka keeping yourself super-busy on social media, rather than connecting with potential paying clients.)
  • Offering discounts to potential clients before they’ve even questioned your prices.
  • Accepting ‘less than’ in any area of your life.

Now the reason I’m able to write this list of non-receivability so easily is because I’ve done all of the above in the past (and continue to do so at times!)

Fortunately, I’m much more aware of these behaviours now and I know that when I do any of the above, I’m closing myself down – both to receiving and being my fullest, brightest, most brilliant self.

And, quite frankly, I see this s**t happening all the time!  Seriously, it’s time to stop playing small and open yourself up to the unbounded possibilities available to you.

Stop saying, ‘I don’t mind’ or ‘It’s nothing really’, or ‘I’m not sure’.

Make a decision to get in the game.

Show willing to the Universe.

Be open.

Choose to accept all that’s on offer to you.

State what you need, want, desire.

Side note: If you find that difficult, it’s okay.  Often when we’ve spent years saying, ‘I don’t mind’, we lose track of our true desires.  Just commit to making a decision, one way or another, and stick with that.  It will take you closer to what you really want and send a message to yourself that you’re open to getting your needs and desires met.

Make an offer.

Be open.

Say, ‘Yes’ to opportunities (especially if they scare you).

Affirm to yourself now (and often) ‘I am open to receive’.

And see how your life begins to shift.

Like magic.

Here’s to super-charging your receive-ability!

Nicola x

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